Psalm 119:113-120

Psalm 119:113-120 
New International Version (NIV)

  I'll admit that I like to be liked.  I seek affirmation -- and so it's hard for me to turn my back on anyone, and there's something to be said for embracing and being in relationship with your enemies.  But there also comes a point where we have to separate ourselves from those who are bad influences, who bring temptation or evil into our lives.  We certainly have separate ourselves from those who physically threaten or harm us.  When obedience to God reigns supreme, we lean into the Holy Spirit to discern how best to conduct our relationships so that we may keep the commands of God, those commands to strive for holiness and to love our enemies.  It's a hard balance, and there's a lot of gray areas between the black and white, which is why it's so important that we discuss these things with people we trust.  We're called to be in community, not always to withdraw.  We're called to love selflessly -- remember that Jesus was forgiving the soldiers watching over his crucifixion. 
  Being a people of faith isn't easy, but we will be delivered, and we will stand in awe!