Luke 22:31-34
Being a parent involves the temptation to try and remove every single obstacle from your child's life. We want the road to be smooth and easy for them. But it's also a process of knowing that they need some opposition to build resilience. That's a vital trait, and so how does one decide where to let them stumble and where to clear the way? I haven't yet figured out the answer to that. I probably lean towards clearing the way.
What's interesting to me is the way that Jesus sets this all up. Jesus tells Peter that he's about to be sifted by the Devil. At which point, if I were Peter, I'd ask for plan B. Jesus tells Peter that Jesus will pray for Peter... but he doesn't remove the trial from Peter. Peter is going to fail -- Jesus prays that Peter will have the capacity to rebound from his failure and then serve his brothers. Jesus prays that Peter will use this weakness to strengthen others, that it won't be wasted.
Peter denies that he will deny Jesus (spoiler: Peter denies Jesus soon). Peter claims he will die before denying Jesus, showing us that we barely know our own weaknesses.
Jesus loves him anyway. Jesus knows he will fail, and yet Jesus prays for him -- not that he will avoid pain and trials, but that he will come out of the trials stronger.
Just because you are going through something hard in your life, it doesn't mean that Jesus has forgotten you. Jesus is still praying for you.